Hello,

Bougainvilleas in the Park

I'm proud to tell you that my walks at the parks have continued since the start of September and I'm loving it!  Apart from all the joy, peace and tranquility I get being out in nature, I seem to learn life's most important lessons from nature too.  

As I walked passed these blossoming bougainvilleas the other day, I noted that just a few weeks ago they were just green leaves for a long time. However, not once do I recall them looking worried or in doubt wondering "how come I still don't have flowers", "what if I don't blossom this time?" or "what if it rains so hard that I will just wither away?" etc. They looked ever so happy and at peace without the flowers and now with the flowers too!

Everything in nature is just present in the moment and in the "beingness" -come rain, or strong gusts of wind, hot sunshine, no sunshine, clouds or relentless rain.

My walks in nature are a wonderful reminder about living in the moment, being patient, enjoying my own journey (and not living in the comparison mode), and trusting that the universal intelligence that created me will bring all that I desire at the right divine time.

My featured article today ties in very well with what I have just shared. I'm sure you will resonate with it!

Until we meet next month...keep tapping!

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Are Your Fears Keeping You Stuck?

Have you been thinking about doing something but haven't yet gotten down to doing it? You came across an idea and thought it might be wonderful to try. Maybe you've been mulling over a great idea for quite a while and are quite clear that this is what you need to do next. But its been a while and your bright idea is still "parked" right where you left it even today.

So what's stopping you? What excuse are you using to avoid playing to the full? Are you telling yourself:

But I am too old for this...or
I don't have the money 
I don't have the time 
I lack experience 
It's all new to me, what if I fail?  
I'm not sure how to go about it! It's a lot of work! 
If I did it, they will judge me!

Are you caught up in the ‘analysis paralysis' loop? Are you over thinking yourself into fears, ‘what ifs', limiting your possibilities, keeping yourself stuck and your dreams at bay?

You will never know if you never try! I remember when I healed myself from chronic pain using the most unorthodox technique there is EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). I knew the miracles this tool had done for me, and I wanted to share it. I said to myself "but it looks so weird", "they will laugh", " how will I explain" etc. Thank God I took the first step. I asked a doctor who was a friend and in pain if she'd like to try something different for her pain. She said Yes and got amazing results! I had taken one baby step forward...I asked. The rest is history! I didn't have a detailed well analyzed, organized  plan of action or any idea of how it would all turn out for me. I trusted my gut and did what felt right. It's been 6 years and I am truly living my dream life.

There's no room for adventure and excitement when you stay in your comfort zone. Over time it gets boring, dull, monotonous. Is that how you want to live? What if you could begin to tip toe in the direction of your dream, just one small baby step.

Some tips to help get you moving...

1. Do not speak about it to the whole world...their judgements/ comments/ lack of belief, and doubting comments may throw you further back!
2. Surround yourself with folks like yourself, those who truly love and support you.
3. Ask yourself WHY do I REALLY want to do it in the first place. (Hint...there must have been a FUN/JOY/FEEL GOOD factor)
4. Ask yourself how does it make me feel when I ignore this wish? Relieved and thrilled? Sad and frustrated?
5. Recall a time when you did something out of your comfort zone and how good that felt.
6. Ask yourself what tiny baby step could you take to move one in the direction of your desire that feels super easy. Do it. Then repeat. Each tiny success makes it easier to have another.

I'm sure you've heard this before "if we are not growing, we're slowly dying". Life is all about growth and expansion – through successes, failures, pain and joy. It's time to step up to the plate and kick fear out of your life! Sometimes a small step can be the BIGGEST STEP of your life. Not only will your life become more exciting, but you'll begin to build confidence and say YES! to many more things you never dared to try  before.

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Are you someone who is:

• Feeling sick and tired of being in pain?
• Trying different things but nothing really seems to be working?
• Wondering with dread “am I going to be stuck with this forever?”

Attend my FREE teleseminar YOUR PAIN IS SPEAKING...ARE YOU LISTENING?Understand and get to the TRUTH...the ROOT CAUSE behind your pain. (It's not what you think it is!)

October 25th, 2013 1PM Thailand/ 7AM London / 2AM ET ~ October 24th, 2013 11 PM PT

Register here!

"When I started my 90 Days journey to Personal Peace with Shalini, I was a wreck. My husband with whom I sailed around the world for 15 years decided to go and live his own life. My self-esteem, self-confidence and self-love were down to absolute zero. Thanks to Shalini both personal advise and her 90 Days group programme, I managed to "pick myself up". From a state of despair to being the person I'm today is a world of difference. Thank you Shalini, you are an excellent guide to Personal Peace."

Ghislaine Bovy, Freelance Digital Marketing
Bangkok, Thailand

Shalini is an Emotional and Physical Pain Relief Expert. She is a certified Advanced EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Practitioner. She holds a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and a Master's in Social Work from Delhi University, India. She also holds a Certificate of Participation in Radical Healing, Emotional Empowerment Therapy and is a certified Reiki Level 1 practitioner.

Shalini began using EFT to relieve herself from her physical pain. As she used the EFT Technique, she instantly discovered reductions in her pain levels. Following EFT's Personal Peace Procedure, she worked on "letting go" of all the old hurts, angers and pain. Practicing EFT for about an hour or two everyday for almost a month, she not only freed herself completely from every single pain in her body, but discovered a deep passion to empower others to help themselves using EFT.

Shalini is now focused on working long term with a small group of clients who are tired of feeling "stuck" in their situation and are "ready" and "committed" to bringing in BIG SHIFTS that they seek in their lives.